I know it feels as if you are forever changing diapers.
I know you wonder why he drives that matchbox car into the wall over and over.
Or why everything becomes a gun or drumsticks.
Why dirt and mud seem to follow him wherever he goes.
Why farts and burps are the funniest thing known to mankind.
Why laundry never gets put away and why towels lay in heaps.
But that boy of yours is growing up. And someday? Someday he will become a man.
I caught a glimpse of that the other night.
My manchild.
18 years old - 6 foot two.
He can easily pick me up or knock me down.
Almost a man. Yet still a boy.
But I caught a glimpse.
A glimpse of maturity.
A glimpse of compassion.
A glimpse of understanding.
I found myself listening to him.
Not just listening as a mother.
But listening…adult to adult. To his wisdom, his thoughts, his opinion.
I valued it.
And as I turned and walked out of his room…stepping over the pile of laundry and crumpled towel. My heart was full.
Because I caught a glimpse.
Because I caught a glimpse.
A glimpse of a wonderful. Honorable. Wise man.
I saw pieces of his father. And bits of his grandfathers. Godly men.
a moment captured by his sister. praying at 1st base before his game. |
At that moment I will try to remember. Remember that glimpse.
He still has plenty of time to be a boy.
And I am very very proud.
I Love you Noah.
~ mom
I Love you Noah.
~ mom
what a beautiful tribute to the man inside the boy, the boy inside the man ---
ReplyDeleteand that photo his sister took -- one for the ages!
thank you friend.
DeleteOh, man, oh, man, oh, man! This is good stuff. Forwarding to my daughters with sons.
ReplyDeleteOh, wow...so beautifully depicted. Made my day, Thank you for this ♥
ReplyDeleteawww…that made MY heart smile!
DeleteMy boys are noise with dirt on them. It is always how I have described them since they could move! This is poignant, and beautiful. Thank you for sharing!
ReplyDeleteThe picture brought tears to my eyes, btw~ such a rare moment, never to be forgotten!
i love that. noise with dirt! thank you for reading. i'm sure you are growing wonderful men!
DeleteI absolutely LOVE this! The next time I trip over a pile of clothes in his room, or have to walk outside to escape the drumming that comes from downstairs, I will appreciate the moment. I will appreciate the man that he is becoming, and I will treasure it. Thank you for the reminder. <3
ReplyDeleteHe is such a lucky young man. That "man" inside might not be the man he WILL be without the guidance given him by one who loves him as much as do you. Well done you. Well done, him.
ReplyDelete{humbled} thank you!
DeleteI am a mother to three sons ages 20, 14, and 5. Yes, it is quite the spread :). Just wanted to tell you how much I loved your words. Watching my oldest become the man he is becoming has been just as fulfilling as watching him learn to walk.
ReplyDeleteso so true! it's certainly different. but equally rewarding :)
DeleteI love this! I am the mother of four sons, the oldest thirty-six and the youngest soon to be twenty-four. All grown to the height of your son, all strong men. Alongside their two sisters, also grown, they all astound me with their wisdom. I learn from them. Your words are wise!
ReplyDeletethank you Melinda! wow four sons! awesome!! it sure is a journey isn't it? xo
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